An unlit candle: half-minded

So now we’re asked to place an unlit candle at the Seder table, to remember the sufering of the people of Tibet. (ht Velveteen Rabbi) And my first reaction is yes, of course, and tell all my friends about it. But then I think. And what about the people of Gaza? Next thing, I think what about the orange? So we have a candle for Tibet, an Orange for gay people, this is becoming a chad gadia.. I don’t know. I really don’t know.